She may believe she wants a nice guy, but in reality, she doesn't want a nice guy. He isn't looking for love because those who look for love quickly lose the whole bad boy flair.The essence of a bad boy is isolation, carelessness, self-indulgence, selfishness and attitude.
If and when they enter into a deeper level of commitment, they often take things a step further.When you put it this way, it's difficult to understand why it is that women go for these kinds of guys.However, the role the actions that result from such personality traits play on the psyches of women is undeniable.I remind him that at a party, she doesn’t have a hundred men lined up to talk to her. The strength of online dating lies in its ability to give us access to total strangers; the downside is how difficult it is to keep their attention. Finally, we get to talking about the woman he’s writing to. I wrote about this extensively in a chapter from “Why You’re Still Single” creatively called “Don’t Play Games”, but to reiterate: NOTHING GOOD COMES OUT OF PLAYING GAMES. None of those things prevent a guy from being nice. Kindness without confidence is the charge against the wishy-washy “nice guys”.They spoke on the phone last night for the first time. But if you put confidence and kindness together…well, I’d say you have a pretty irresistible combination of traits for a man. Confident men keep their plans after they make them.
’This unsolved mystery has stumped me for years until now. There are several contributing factors that place Nice Guys in dating purgatory.