When both of you are not in love anymore, a relationship that can easily succeed starts to become a burden of frustrations and pain.
Ever find yourself questions your own relationship and whether you’re doing the right thing by staying a relationship that gives you no joy?
It happens in different ways and at a different pace from one person to the next. There’s no need to run for the exits just because the two of you have different expectations of the relationship at first.
Sometimes, the new man in your life will get ahead of you, declaring his deep feelings before you are ready to follow. Not all romances burst into flame immediately—some may smolder for quite a while before gaining enough heat for combustion. Don’t let your partner’s emotional certainty force you into choosing before you are ready. A potential partner who has deep feelings for you is alert for any clue that you may feel the same way.
It’s fine if you decide to go for it, tell him you love him - and read no further.
I’m sure he feels the same way about me but neither of us have said the ‘L’ word yet. I want to tell him I love him but am not sure how to go about it and wonder if I should hold on for him to go first. You say you’re not sure whether to be open about how you feel.If you read anything on this list and think, “Hmmm, weird…” I hate to break it to you, but you might be in love. MORE: The five stages of LOVE – from first date butterflies to long-term stability Maybe you’re checking to make sure you still have service. MORE: 13 Things That Happen When You Fall In Love, According To Science If it means being able to spend more time with him, you’ll sacrifice a lot. How small irritants become big issues—and what to do about them Whether you’re walking around, see a Starbucks and wish he was there with you…All uncertainty would vanish, and all questions of emotional compatibility would be rendered moot. In reality, it often takes time and effort to know what you want and with whom you want to share it.Falling in love is not a “one-size-fits-all” proposition.